Think about it. Does he call you at least once a week, text every few days and take you on at least one date a week? He might be lonely, bored or have nothing else to do. You might be a placeholder — good enough for now until a better woman comes along. Good call! You are right about that and instinctively know this. If you are trying to figure out how interested a man really is, stop reaching out to him!
I would think after a week of not reaching out and not hearing from him, he is not the right man for you. Who wants a guy that detached? Not you, I hope. No excuses are valid. Not out-of-town guests, work, or even health will do. If a man is interested, he will stay in touch, not go silent or disappear. A lot of men hate to be the bearer of bad news.
Instead, they are passive and hope you get fed up and go away. More than that and you are at risk of keeping things alive and stressing yourself out. Stop contacting him and move on. Free yourself up so he can find you. I feel i just want it to stay as a friendship status. When it comes to modern romance and texting, Post Senning says to present yourself as considerate, respectful, and honest.
In the end, Post Senning also reminds us to not take things too seriously. Just go for it — text them back. For you. World globe An icon of the world globe, indicating different international options. Get the Insider App. Click here to learn more. A leading-edge research firm focused on digital transformation. Good Subscriber Account active since Shortcuts.
Account icon An icon in the shape of a person's head and shoulders. Warning: This does not necessarily mean that he is a great guy, nor does it mean he's obsessed, lonely or desperate; it just means he called you the next day. I know most women want the call the very next day, and it can be really nice when two people outwardly acknowledge that date number one was great and express that the very next day.
But do not rule a guy out because he waits a few days. This formula has been ingrained into his head—it's a hard habit to break. IE 11 is not supported. For an optimal experience visit our site on another browser. Share this —. Follow today. More Brands. By iVillage.
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